[ It's a simplistic answer. Sometimes, things are more complicated, but Ash states his own plan. He'll pick his dominant, he won't have them picked for him. And he won't lower himself for them. ]

The Dominants need to be contracted, too. You don't have to roll over and show your stomach for the first person who'll pet you.

[ His attention is in the wound as he slides the bandage over it. ]

You have more power in it than it seems, but only if you don't wait around for them to shove it on you.