[Honestly Phillip is mostly just an awkward nerd who hides his awkwardness and insecurity behind years of acting and repression. It's a great time for everyone.]

Not as common as you might be thinking, but they're, uh, definitely a thing. [Really he is genuinely a little surprised they're not more common, now that she brings it up.] They're mostly focused on Dominant and Submissive thing, I think.