[then she's better equipped to deal with this place as a submissive than most. most Margaery has seen in her short time here either raged at or resented their designations. not that Margaery can blame them]

May I ask what you do put purpose in?

[her tone is even and her expression mild. she knows it's a personal question the other woman may choose not to answer.

Margaery notices her rubbing at her arm as if to warm herself and decides] Would you like to go inside and have a cup of tea? It's beastly cold outside.