So, just to totally make sure we're on the same page, here—

[She gestures between them, her eyes wide and earnest.

There's obviously a blow just waiting to land, somewhere in this.]

You understand, intellectually, that you as a separate person who can't read minds, cannot assume how somebody feels or automatically determine across the board what's bad for them, without their actual, literal, explicit explanations of their own feelings and experiences. Is what you're saying to me. Correct?