Of course they like the randomized power imbalance... [Sigh.] Just because they like it doesn't mean it's right. Maybe if the Submissives weren't in such dire straits and treated more equally, I would think it's so bad... [Okay, she would probably still be mightily uncomfortable with it and probably still be angry, but that's just because that's how she is. She wouldn't have as much of a leg to stand on then, though.]

Is he... even someone you can talk to? Or does he outright refuse?